Just married in October, Just turned 35 in December. I'm also overweight, so that's not helping either.
Stopped taking BCP in August and we've TTC ever since. We've been taking a "it will happen when it happens" approach for the first few months and were still disappointed each month when AF arrived.
Even before my wedding, my family and friend were asking when we were having children. Now, I feel like every time I see them the first question is "Are you pregnant?" It's frustrating to have to answer no, or not yet, etc.
We started using OPK this month... with no luck, never detected a LH surge. I was testing in the morning when I woke up and nothing. Never had the "as dark or darker" test line.
AF is due on Jan 5th or 6th (usually a 28-29 day cycle), but I think I'm already having some cramping, so I'm not too hopeful for this month.
Looking for suggestions on how to deal when people ask and well as when is the right time to see OB/GYN or RE for a consult?