I am so hesitant to get excited about this pregnancy because I miscarried in June. I find myself expecting to see blood everytime I go to the restroom (Sorry if it's TMI!). I haven't even made my first appointment yet-is anyone else feeling like this?
Re: Pregnant after a miscarriage-Anyone else?
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Welcome & GL!
I had 3 losses before DD was born, and one in October of this year. It's hard to get excited, but you will eventually feel more comfortable. I found that getting a doppler helped me relax because I could check in on DD whenever I felt like it.
That really must have been difficult for you, thanks for sharing. I was looking at the dopplers and the more I think about it the more I want to get one
When is the weekly thread? I haven't managed to catch it yet.
You are not alone! I hated going to the bathroom at all the first few weeks bc I was always scared there would be blood. Thankfully there never was! I had my first ultrasound 3 weeks ago and seeing the heartbeat definitely helped me relax. I still get anxious occassionally, but it decreases every day. Hang in there!!!
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Sorry about your miscarriage, but I felt the same way. I had a miscarriage in August and found out I was prego again in Dec. When I first found out I was not excited one bit. I was more worried because having a miscarriage is a life changing and emotional event. I didn't want to get to excited and then be disapponted again. I am just now coming around to be an excited pregnant woman because I went to the Dr. yesterday for a sinus infection and she wanted to check on my babies heartbeat and we saw my baby!! Growing and heartbeating much more faster than the first prenatal visit.
My BF was upset with me b/c he felt as if I didn't want to be pregnant but, it wasn't that, it was the fact of me being let down again....but now I can relax and be worry free because what I saw yesterday was a confirmation that everything is ok....better than before.
I hope this makes you feel a little better....