I wasn't sure what to title this post but I need some advice. Good advice. When I was about 10 weeks my husband and I got a call from my cousin and his wife to tell us that they were also expecting - yay! This didn't come as a surprise to us because we knew they were trying and I was pretty excited to have someone I'm close to (our family is tight knit so cousins are more like siblings) going through the same things as myself. Everything was great, until last night. They lost their baby.
I was so overwhelmed when I spoke them this morning but was keeping it together so they didn't become even more upset. Obviously I didn't know what to say besides, "I'm so sorry" which of course, didn't seem like enough. Now I feel a little guilty for having such an easy pregnancy (so far) and such a healthy baby. What I need advice about is what to say to her and what to do. Do I need to avoid talking to her about our baby for a while? (This seems appropriate). Help!