Am I pregnant?!
...haha just kidding, I'm really not asking that.
Actually, I just introduced myself a couple days ago, and one thing I didn't mention is that DH and I have about 4 cycles to ttc, otherwise we have to wait another year. What would really be helpful for us, is to hear from you all, real women ttc, how long you have been ttc and everything you've been doing to "better the chances".
Also, DH is convinced that it won't take that long to actually get pregnant. I'm a bit worried that he doesn't understand the percentages, and can't get a grasp on it. He needs real people with the experience.
So what I'm asking, is if you could just help me to know what to say and how to explain to him, that it could take us up to a year to get pregnant, and there's only a 20 chance every time.
I've researched and tried to show him, but is there a more delicate but straight forward way of getting him to understand that it's not "a snap of the fingers" and if we want it to happen sooner, we need to do everything to help better the chances.
Thanks in advance.