I have some wonderful friends who have offered to throw my shower as thi is my first child and they couldn't be more excited to do it. So far I have been included in the date, time, and location. I am due in late May and want to have the shower on March 2nd. My friends think this is a fine idea but when I told my Mil and SIL they pretty much told me it was stupid to have it so early. Is it? Or is it a perfect time? I am a compulsive shopper so I figured the sooner the shower the less I would have time to buy. And I get extreme anxiety when things are not in order and I thougt that this would give me 2 months to wash, organize, put away, and buy whatever else is needed. Thoughts please?