I have a friend who offered to throw me a shower pretty much the moment she found out I was pregnant. She's talked about it a few times since, and the last she mentioned something was 3 weeks ago, when she said she was waiting for her manager to finish the January schedule (we used to work together, so quite a few people who were going to be invited are from work, so she wanted to plan around the schedule) in order to set a date and send out invites.
Well...it's now almost January, and I haven't heard from her about a set date yet. Is it rude for me to bring it up? If she changed her mind about hosting, it's really no big deal, but if she didn't, I kind of need to know for my own planning purposes so I can take off work.
Should I ask her about it? Or just assume that if she doesn't bring it up soon, she changed her mind? TIA!