Is it normal to have confusion over having another baby? My son had a lot of problems when he was an infant. He had acid reflux and colicky. My husband and I both decided not have another I even had an IUD put in. Well now my son is almost a year old and Im having feelings of wanting another.. It actually makes me really confused because I know financially we cant afford it, then i feel like my son would have a better life if he was an only child. Then on the other hand I feel selfish because I dont want him to be lonely once my husband and I are gone.. Anyone else have another baby confusion?