Anyone else not looking forward to Christmas bc of relative visits? My parents are coming over but I discussed it with my dad and they are only coming over briefly. I know my mom is upset but I have to do what is best for us otherwise I might blow up at her. When she has come over before all she does is flash her damn camera in the baby's eyes. She doesn't really seem interested in spending quality time with her granddaughter...just taking these horrible pics. Also I had some medical issues due to the labor and delivery that I wouldn't share wih her and I think she is hurt by that but I don't feel like discussing it. I have felt like we are getting more support from our neighbors than them. So now I dread their visit bc my mom will try to make it about her and how I am hurting her feelings by not having them over the entire day but I have to do what is best for me, DH and the LO. Anyone else?