Merry Christmas Eve ladies! My husbands grandma is in the hospital, very ill, with complications of bone marrow cancer. He wants to go visit her today and say Merry Christmas. LO has a very bad cough and is sneezing and coughing nonstop. I told him I should not go in with LO so as not to get her sick. He thinks I'm just trying to "get out of going". Am I wrong? Isn't it safer for grandma not to be around someone who is sick?