For the last couple of weeks, ds has insisted to get in bed with us to go to sleep. I would follow our normal routine and get him ready to go down to bed at 8:45 like normal, and he would scream and cry, and say he wanted to go with me. So, I gave in and let him sleep in our bed for several nights. Tonight, since I don't have to go to work, I let him take the lead for bed time, to just see when he would naturally lay down from being tired, and he didn't really start getting sleepy, naturally, until around 9:30. He went right to sleep in his bed, no fussing and no begging to get in bed with us. I think I am going to just push bedtime back for our sanity. What do you ladies think? He is still taking about a 2 hour nap during the middle of the day.