DH's family is coming over for Christmas today. SIL and MIL are making appetizers. BIL called DH and said that SIL is making a pesto with cashews in it. Well, DH is highly [like visit to the ER] allergic to cashews. BIL called to make sure DH could be in the same room as the pesto. DH never wants to put anyone out so he told them not to worry.
I, on the other hand, am like..."Of all the appetizers in all the world, you couldn't have made one without cashews?" I'm concerned about the nut oils getting on things. I'm not going to eat any so I can still kiss DH without issue. I made DH get Benadryl just in case. She's been married to BIL for 3.5 years so she knows about DH's nut allergy because they tell the story of the Christmas they found out about the allergy every Christmas.
Why would anyone think it is ok to bring cashews into my house knowing DH is highly allergic???