Some of you may remember my post last week about being a SP and FTM who wants to do AP. I'm living with my folks right now and will have to at least 3 mo after LO comes. My mom watches my 3 yr old niece everyday after day care. She feels very close to me and very comfy in this home. The other day she came in my room and started digging in my LO things. My mom pointed to my belly and told her those were for the new baby Harper. It wasn't in a.. Not for you... Kind of tone. We were smiling and excited. She grabs the outfits, throws them, and says NO BABY. I'm worried about her when Harper comes. I love her so much too, though she's not mine... What do I do ladies?