How do you get the point across to relatives that you do not think a tablet is an appropriate Christmas gift for a 6yo, among other things? And even more importantly, how do you talk to DH about age appropriate gifts and age of appropriate responsibility for certai ly items? Anytime the subject is approached, DH and I not to mention the inlaws have very different views. No one eveb wants to take the time to listen to why I think she may not be old enough for such item. All I get is, "Just because your childhood sucked doesn't mean you gave to make theirs suck, too."