I was talking to a friend today who asked me about how the baby stuff was going and I just started going off about how I don't trust my RE anymore and feel really let down and fustrated with the whole situation. We decided when we met with him a year ago we would do the package plan he has. It includes 4 IVF s for a flat fee to the RE of 10,000 and u get as many FET a as needed to produce a live birth. Of course we are completely OOP and have to pay meds for each cycle and a surgery center fee for each cycle. So in a year ive only had one IVF which was April that made it to surgery and a whole lot of waiting in between. We did a mini stim IVF in oct which didn't even make it to surgery so it doesn't count as one of our 3 try's we have left. I feel like all of you ladies end up having like many try's with IVF In a year and I keep getting pushed off by my RE! I can't quit him now since I've paid him already I have to stick it out!!! Ugh so upset about this latley and I don't even have a solid plan with him in jan yet!!! How would you approach your next meeting with the dr if you are in my shoes and how would you voice your fustrations to him in a polite way????
Me 33 and DH 38 married in aug. 2002
Did 5 round of clomid 2010 =BFN
High levels of NK CELLS DX sept.2012 DOR:# 0.02
IVF #1 May 2012 ER 4, EF 2, ET 2 =BFN
Hysteroscopy 7/12/12 D&C preformed and one Polyp removed
MINI IVF Oct.2012 Cancelled 10-27-12
Ivf #3 Antagonist Protocol April 2013
Cancelled due to poor response AGAIN!
Moving on to Donor Eggs Found Amazing donor June 2013
Shared cycle..Donor cycled in July Got 12 eggs 9 fertilized and 8 frozen!!
DE FET #1 Sept. 3rd 2013 FIRST BFP EVER 5dp5dt
miscarried Sept 24th Etopic D&C and hysterscopy Nov 5 2013
dx Blood clotting and retesting Nk cells dec 2013
hopefully will try FET #2 Jan/Feb 2014