Dh got called to work last night and didn't get home until this morning. He said he was tired and wanted to take a short nap when he got home. Completely understandable. So he goes to bed at 9 a.m. The boys refuse to nap, they have fought and whined all day, unwrapped Christmas gifts, gotten into everything, etc...and I've had to make several things for Christmas brunch at my uncle's tomorrow. I've almost went batty today! It's been one of THOSE days.
Anyway, I wake him up at 5:30 this evening and tell him supper is ready, and he whines that he has barely slept, although every single time I've been near the bedroom he is sound asleep.
Anyway, he gets up, gets his dinner, and sits down. I get the kids situated to eat and feed LO and my toddler. My dinner is now cold. Dh puts on a movie, which is quite graphic and I ask him to turn it off until the kids are in bed bc our 2 yr old is very much watching it and I don't want to be up all night bc he is scared. Dh gets all mad, takes the movie out, leaves his plate on the table, which LO knocks off and proceeds to cut into the smores cake that I made for tomorrow. I'm still feeding the kids and haven't even touched my food. I ask if he can take LO so I can eat and he says yes, then gets up and goes to take a shower. I finished my dinner standing at the bar with my LO wrapped around my legs and ds1 screaming for him not to touch me. Dh is currently in the bedroom watching his movie, while I get stuff ready for bed time. He is usually such a huge help, but tonight I just wanna cry. He hasn't lifted a finger today and then acts like I'm the bad guy bc I wanna eat! I'm sorry, I know this is pointless, and I'm usually the only one home with them, so I'm used to it. But when he gets home from work any other day, he pretty much takes over and I can get my things done around the house. It's just been a crappy day, I guess.
If anyone else needs a husband vent, have at it!