I just got finished talking to DH about this, but it is still on my mind and I thought someone here might understand...or make me feel like I am not crazy!
Its 3 weeks now since my D&E and we've told a handful of friends and family. People were always nice and supportive when they heard the news and of course asked how I was doing. What is upsetting me though is that the majority of friends expressed their condolences when first hearing about the m/c, but then never asked me again (or DH) how I am doing. Its as if they think the loss is a one day thing and then you move on. Am I crazy to think that it would be nice if these people who are so-called "best friends" of mine would check on me every so often to see how I am holding up? DH says that unless they've been through it, they don't know how to react and act. I do understand what he is saying, but it is still hard to not be upset by what seems like a lack of compassion.
Is anyone else experiencing this type of feeling? If so, did you say anything to your friends or family to let them know that you are still going through lots of emotions?
Its just a lonely feeling....and thats why I am so, so, so thankful for this board. You ladies have been a savior!