Ok this is a vent about one of my best friends baby shower. She lives in Florida and I in Virginia. She found out she was pregnant when I found out I was pregnant the year before. So basically our babies will be one year apart. So cool!
Fast forward to baby shower. I can't really plan it because I live so far away with a LO of my own and tight on money. But she has another best friend who "said" she'd plan it. I messaged her in October asking what the deal was. She said "she was hoping to plan it waiting to find out what she was having" (don't know what that has to do with anything) I told her to keep me posted because I wanted to be able to come and not to leave me out.
Ok Fast forward to today. Have heard nothing since. I was talking to my best friend on the phone and asked her about baby shower. She said she didn't know when it was and thought me and other BF were planning (ahhhhhhh)
She said she believed it was on Feb. 9th and was going to be at her house which she preferred
So after I get off the phone with her I frantically message Florida BF of hers and asked her if she is planning the baby shower - well here is the conversation (make it easier)ME -Hey just wanted to know if you were doing A's baby shower. Just got off the phone with her and she doesn't know when it is. Aren't you throwing her one?
OK so that was the exchange... I am just so hurt for my friend I want her to have a baby shower and it stresses me out that it might not happen. So I messaged her husband and filled him in and told him to talk to Florida BF and his mom and crack the whip. And if Florida best friend backs out give me his mothers phone number so I can help her plan from here. Also told him to not let his wife know what's going on because I do not want to stress her out
So I already got her to start compiling a list of people she wants and addresses and I'll do invitations. But before I send them out I need to know who is throwing the dang thing and the date!!
Ok if you followed me through this thanks for listening just needed to vent because obviously I could not vent to my best friend in FL.