I thought you ladies might have some thoughts for me... It took me 3 years to conceive, some fertility treatment and 1 m/c. It's been a long journey and I'm thrilled to be in the 3rd tri today! From other boards it seems that many people finish their baby's nursery in the 2nd and early in the 3rd Tri. Few people have the same hesitation as I do.
I'm a planner and I want to finish her nursery now, but I'm scared. And I have the time to finish it over the holidays, I won't have as much time later on. But what if something goes wrong with the baby and then I have this beautiful finished nursery and no baby? How have you all handled this, is anyone else superstitious about this? On the other hand, I often feel like there's something to worry about at every stage, even after she's born and I have to get over it at some point.
Thanks for your thoughts!