Hello all! I am the mother of a lovely 2 year old little girl. My husband and I were so excited to have a baby and our families were too. Now baby number 2 is heavy on my brain. We have been blessed to be financially stable and we have never asked any family member for anything not even to babysit. We are always commended on how well we do with our daughter. But now it seems like everyone have something bad to say about having babies. My husband recently called his mother to tell her I got a promotion. He started the conversation off by saying "Guess what" and she said "Oh God, is she pregnant? " Then I let my daughter call my mom to tell her what she asked Santa for, when my daughter said "A baby referring to a baby doll" my mom said "Hopefully not a real one. " Am I being sensitive or are they negative? I have never discussed having a second child with anyone besides my husband.