What do you do for child care?
I'm fortunate right now in that my parents (retired) watch both boys but the downside to that is when DH and I want to have a night out or go out on the weekend. DH's parents live in another state so it's not like we have that option and it's really uncomfortable for me (and them) to ask my parents to watch them for longer on a weeknight or for some time on the weekend. I feel like that's their "down time". There's also the problem of having to stay home when one or both of them have doctor's appts.
So what do you all do for child care? Do you LOs go to a typical day care? Is there such a thing as a special needs day care? Special needs babysitting service?