Ok so there were crappy things said after my loss, and in general I know people say crappy things about it because they just don't understand. But then there are crappy things that people say that are just.... crappy. Like the friend who told me after my 1st loss that "Well now you really know how you feel about being a parent" Well anyways, more recently a comment was made about a pregnancy announcement, and basically this person said "I know you had a m/c, but why couldn't you just be happy for me? I feel cheated" - the announcement was made not long after my 2nd loss and I know I was avoidant, but i was never outwardly unpleasant (didn't cry - to their face) I just couldn't jump for joy. I don't know why I'm just having a hard time letting this one go. I know I need to and its just a small stupid thing that was said... but urgh.
Easter 2010 BFP #1: EDD 12/7/10
Natural m/c 4/17/10 at 6wk 5days.
10/6/10 BFP #2: EDD 6/14/11
Mtx shot 10/15 (5w3d) for cervical ectopic pregnancy
5/11/11 BFP #3 3rd times the charm!!!
Beautiful baby boy born 1/10/12 7lb 14oz 21 inches