My DH is not good at buying me gifts. I have been disappointed with the past few gifts from him (Mother's Day: a card, barely mentioned the day, and I didn't even get to sleep in, then a week later a gift card to the spa...Birthday: t-shirt, but I don't wear t-shirts). We usually set a spending limit for celebrations (usually $50-$100). I give him lists, but he doesn't get the stuff on the list because it usually involves time (example: watch the baby so I can go buy new running shoes...never happened and then he asked if I ever got new running shoes, nope). For Christmas I asked him to make a frame for an antique map that I bought a while back. He is just now looking into it, and there is no way it will happen in time. How do I not act disappointed on Christmas Day? Is it ok to say, "the gifts you give me make me feel unappreciated."?