I am in the early stages of treating my depression, but I am dealing with a lot of negative feelings about how far behind my LO is. I feel like he would be better off with someone else. I blame myself that he is behind like I should be working with him more or I should have eaten healthier when I was pregnant. I find myself saying "you are a terrible mother" over and over in my head. Sometimes I notice that I start saying it aloud too.
Has anyone else had or have these feelings? How do you learn to cope with your LO's delay or disability?