I am new to this forum. I posted once and saw that new people normally introduce themselves and give a little background. We have been TTC for a little over 8 months. Have had my DH and I checked and everything turned out ok. I have long cycle so my doc says it takes longer for women with long cycle to get BFP?? I have been getting the "Just Relax" comment from people and it makes my blood boil! I dont want to be rude, some of them are older relatives or coworkers, but I feel people should know by now this not an appropriate thing to say? How do you handle it? Should I just ignore it?