I am definatly not a modern feminist. I wish that I could afford to be at home raising a bunch of kiddos and taking care of my husband and home. If my finances could handle it, I would be way crunchier than I am, and buy all organic food and toys and stuff like that. I in no way judge anyone who enjoys working, but I wish I didn't have too. I also don't regret having DS, but a part of me wishes we got our money issues together first, then started having babies. I also would be pregnant right now again if we could afford it.