My daughter said something to me tonight that just hurt my feelings. This will be my second child. I have a 13 year old that told me tonight she thinks when the baby comes no one is gonna pay attention to her anymore. That just hurt my heart to hear her say that. I told her that would never happen but I also had to explain to her that a baby is very needy & will need more for a little while, I also let her know that she will be part of the processes helping out & all. I know she doesn't want to share me & I'm gonna try my hardest to not leave her out but I thought this only happened with younger siblings.