When to tell the kids that she is very sick and not going to get better?
My Grandfather died a few months ago, then one of their goldfish died, then a few weeks ago we took the class hamster home because the school was getting new tiles over the weekend and unbeknownst to me it was very old and of course, it died while it was here. They are sensitive to the issue, and one of my three year olds told me yesterday "When I die, Mommy, you can get another kid since you love having three kids."
I am afraid they are going to find her, that they are going to become scared that everyone around them is dying... ugh. When would you tell them?