I heard different ladies talk about how their first attempt at sex after a birth has happened anywhere from 2 weeks to months, sometimes depending on tearing and feelings. Most of the people that have commented have talked about their episiotomies. I didn't have an episiotomy, but tore INTERNALLY. (LO pulled her elbow down as she came out and tore me the length of my vagina, then burst a cyst and torn off to one side.). With that type of damage in mind, how long did you take you ladies to feel comfortable with sex.