I tried to intro here awhile ago and some people were not comfortable with my joining which was fine and I understood. I am not asking to join but I feel I really need IF Vet expertise.
As you can see in my siggie not only did our FET end in a miscarriage and D & C surgery in July but our 3rd fresh IVF in November we ended up with nothing to transfer at day 3. We had 5 retrieved 3 mature and only one fertilized normally but never made it past two cells and was "dark" on day 3.
I was on a long lupron protocol, I have an AMH which is low at 0.98 although the RE called it borderline all other tests were normal for someone almost 36 which I will be in March.
At my wtf he said he would use a microdose lupron flare but still with bcp this time. He thinks he could maybe get a few more eggs but nothing dramatic, he said a few more eggs could give us a few more embryos and hopefully two or three to transfer. He really did not have any answers for the awful result and seemed suprised.
With my first fresh IVF in 2009 I had 11 retrieved and mature and at day 5 had two to transfer (our twins) and two to freeze (the FET miscarriage), this was also a long lupron but at a clinic in a different state. It seems like such a different result and was only three years ago?
What would you do? Go with this clinic after the previous result? Go to the competing clinic which is newer but has lower success rates and maybe a lesser lab. Stop cycling altogether since my eggs are obviously old and crappy? Oh we also have to use surgical sperm becaue of DH's dx but the lab said his sperm looked good and do not think it caused the failure. Thanks for reading, I really aprreciate your advice and experiences.