Give me a break...grow up. Don't tell me about big girl panties. Thanks to the few of you who posted replies that actually have some common sense. good luck to you all with your pregnancies. I must have missed how this board has been snarky for years... and my other two pregnancies were a while back...so perhaps it was some other nicer board I was on and i forgot about it.
There is a HUGE difference between what some of you call tough love and helping someone who is new at this through those crazy scary first months when every hope and fear is wrapped up in the "What if, what does it mean, why does it feel this way...etc.
I hope when you're in the same boat, someone has more patience with you. Heck, i hope when you have this child, you have more patience with it. Tough love--please. you're being B*^%$es and you know it.
I'm out of here. going back to the adult board. Thanks.
I'm too old and too mature to need this.
Best of luck to you. and those that are here for the right reasons--stick it out. There are good folks here, just pass over the other comments and keep your chin up.