My parents have offered to throw a co-ed baby shower for me and my husband. We talked about dates and times with them this weekend and we all mutually agreed that it would be best to do the shower on a Saturday evening so that people coming from out of town can fly in on Saturday morning. Originally, we were talking about doing it at my house but the guest list looks like it's going to be around 40-45 people which we can't easily fit at my place, so my parents would like to do an evening dinner at a restaurant. It wouldn't be the normal baby shower because it would start around 5 or 6 and just mainly be focused on everyone getting together and chatting with appetizers and drinks and then dinner around 6:30. Is this too weird for a baby shower? I guess it would end up being more of a party --- which is what we prefer --- but I wanted to find out what y'all think.