We have three older boys 10, 9 5. Romance was never a problem. We wee so sweet to each other. Then our SPIRITED little man came along and it's all but disappeared. I have thought so many times, Will we ever come out of this? Just when I felt like all was lost, DH comes in this morning after letting me sleep in, cleaning up projectile baby vomit three times, and cooking an elaborate breakfast for the boys, and surprises me with this huge tray of breakfast, coffee and juice. I've never gotten breakfast in bed ever, believe it or not, and my heart just melted. Even though i would really like to hear from other moms who survive the rocky road of having a SPIRITED baby, and come out on top loving their DH and continuing to romance each other, I would be super happy to hear from every one from the January 2012 club to share something out of the ordinary that's happened to you or by you. Thanks! Happy holidays all.