So I'm having a midwife and there are 4 midwives that rotate schedules so I don't know who is going to be on call when the time comes. My problem is that there is one midwife in particular I do NOT want there. I just don't like her energy, the way she talks to me, and it seems as though she's a bit more to jump towards the traditional route of childbirth, although she's a midwife and the chances are lower than with an OB, I just don't feel like she fully supports my birth plan.
I know I may not get her, hopefully not, but what, if anything can I do to prevent it or what do I do if I get her? I am having a doula and I'm thinking maybe just keep the midwife away unless medically needed if she's the one who ends up there..