My sister in law and I are very close, and have been commiserating for the last year and a half as we have both been trying to get pregnant. My husband and I succeeded and are are planning on telling our families this weekend-I will be 10 weeks. However, my sister in law and her husband JUST found out that he is not producing any sperm. They don't know why yet, so they don't know if anything can be done about it, Needless to say, they are fairly devastated. How do we tell the family our exciting news without feeling like we are rubbing it in their faces?
Thought the ladies still on TTC might have good input on this. 6 months ago, when I had been trying for over a year I cried myself to sleep when I found out my sister was having number two. That was hard, but this seems worse.
What is the best way to hear someone else's news, when its always hard to hear?