I feel so silly already making lists, (and so does my SO) but he is SO picky that I feel that I have to get a head start on the name thing.
He won't even talk to me about them yet, so I have to just sneak the occasional "what do you think about this name?" ... It's frustrating. We did miscarry in September, so his reasoning is that he doesn't want me to get my hopes up just in case it happens again... I guess that's a good reason, but I'm trying to stay positive... :/