Hi there. I've been lurking, and my crazy family has driven me to the point of too much stress, so I have a question:
My sister and mother have been talking about throwing my shower since we've started IVF in September. Needless to say, they've been scheming over this shower over the last month or so. My MIL on the other hand just found out about the baby, and wants to throw me a shower as well. Is it tacky to have 2 showers even if you don't invite the same person to both? My mom threw my bridal shower, and my MIL showed up late, left early, and is still a cause of pain for my family. Our family's don't get along, so I'm all for have the 2 small showers and no drama. My mom and sister went ballistic after hearing about the idea of having 2 showers, and think I'm being selfish for going along with it. I just don't want any more fighting!! What is the right thing to do?!?!? TIA!