so, my baby shower is going to be January 12th, and my host hasn't even figured out where it's going to be since her house is too small, which means she hasn't even sent out the invitations. I've tried to be as helpful as I can in suggesting locations and offering my help since I know it's not easy to be in charge of hosting a party right after the holiday season, but she keeps telling me not to worry about it, but I AM worrying about it at this point.my husband is in the military and there are quite a few people that he needs to hand deliver invitations to because they have asked us to not send them to their mailing address(it takes FOREVER to get to them), and everyone is going to start leaving for the holidays starting on December 15th, and after that we don't get home until after Christmas at which point others will leave anf not get home until January 10th, so essentially if they haven't received the invitation by December 14th, there's a chance we wont see them again until two days before the shower is supposed to be!
I don't want to be demanding or rude or anything, but I had asked her to have the invitations out by thanksgiving so that people could roll the shopping into their holiday shopping, but that obviously didn't happen, and I'm not sure what I can/should say to her ... any suggestions? wwyd?
"Why do I do it?.... because nights alone aren't permanent, missing him reminds me that I'm lucky enough to have someone to miss, and because I'm not afraid to make sacrifices for true love"