I have a almost 6 week old. Its our first baby & I BF. When my daughter is fussing if my husband has her its very difficult for me to just let them work it out & not rush over & take her.
I really do want him to be able to comfort her but I want to start crying when she's just screaming. Sometimes I know putting her to the breast would help (for comfort not because she's hungry) but he get's irritated when I take her for that.
I'm kind of resentful because I read a lot of books & feel prepared (even though sometimes nothing works) & he didn't. If I suggest something, say swaddle her, I feel like he doesn't try my suggestion because he wants to come up with the answer. Thats all good, but in the mean time my kid is screaming & I just want to help her.
Advice so I don't punch him out?