My husband and I have been fighting non stop-usually about his family, but also about other things. Anyway, I want to go to counseling. He refuses. So, I have an appointment to meet with an attorney next week. Here's the issue-he's a stay at home dad-has been for the past 2 months since he quit his job to move for a fantastic opportunity for me (I make more now than the two of us did combined before). I am typically 8-5 but do work one weekend a month. Our plan was for him to start looking for work, but he has not done so. So, I am concerned about custody-will he get full custody since he's the primary caretaker for our daughter? Does the fact that he quit his job for mine play into this at all? I am fine with weekend visits and even one night per week with him. I just want her with me personally. My job is with children (I am a pediatrician) so I feel like that should help me out. I just hate to lose her. By the way, she's 18 months old.