I have gone back and forth about this so many times! I am 23 weeks, so I know I have plenty of time to decide, but I am torn with who I want in the delivery room!
Of course my DH will be in the room with me and I want my mom to be in there as well, but I am torn with my sister.
I was there for both of her deliveries, so the other day when she asked me if she gets to be in the room when I have my LO I was put on the spot and just said yes. She would have been hurt and sad if I said no, but wouldn't have expressed it, so I felt bad!
I went home and talked about it with my DH, and he said its whatever I want, and my mom said I should just tell everyone that I will decide the day of and see how everything goes. I may or may not care on that day.
In addition, the days where I think I don't mind, I also want to tell her that I don't mind if niece and god daughter is in there, but other days I think to myself that I don't want her to be.
If she is I would put her in charge of pictures and such, so I don't feel like she is just starting at me, but at the same time I want it more intimate.
What do I do????
Who was in the room with you, if this is your second?
If its your first, like me, who are you asking to be?
*Alaina Nicole was born March 28th, 2013* -Siggy!