Hi. I don't visit the boards a lot, but I am really looking for support and figuring out if I'm solo in this.
My husband has been pretty terrible during this pregnancy. He isn't violent and I'm not afraid of him. He's completely unsupportive. He doesn't try to feel the baby. He won't rub my swollen feet or aching back if I ask for it. He stays up til 2 or 3am, then comes to bed and disturbs me when I'm already having trouble sleeping. I could go on, but I sound whiny even to myself.
I had a daughter with my ex-husband and it was the complete opposite. Maybe I'm struggling because I had it so good that time. Is anyone else in a similar situation?
Karen in NC, mom to angel Olivia 2-5-00~2-10-08, wife to Kelly
two mc's in 2011, IVF in June '12, baby boy Emory due 3-11-13