So my sister and my mom have offered to host my shower. I am having twins and everything I have read says that earlier is better to have the shower. I am due on April 4th but I know that I will probably have them no later than mid-March. I explained this to them and suggested we have the shower Jan 19th (Matrin Luther King Weekend) I would be about 30 weeks. Well, they both called and said that they would like to push the shower out to maybe February 16th (President's Day weekend), I feel like that is way too late to be having my shower. I know I should just be thankful that they are having this party for me but I am so worried that I will be miserable.
I told them to choose another date if they want and worst case my husband will go in my place.
Do I sound unreasonable?