I am on modified bedrest with my twins and will be when my baby shower is being held. Just wondering if any of you still had a shower while on bed rest, how it went, and how you accommodated things. My best friends are hosting it the first weekend in Jan and mentioned that I could wait and do a meet the baby shower but said they would rather do it before babies are here due to a. If babies come early I could be in the nicu b. not want to risk so many people being around two brand new preemie babies, not that they will be but DR said they will more than likely be here before the 34week mark due to complications. And c. Host 1 is due jan 26 and Host 2 is due Dec 26 and they said the likelihood of them trying to manage time to do a shower with two newborns of their own might be too much for them.
I'm just kind of stuck. WWYD?