I had my first child over 7 years ago and had a wonderful baby shower. When I found out that I was pregnant with my second a few of my new coworkers bought a cake and we had a great afternoon sharing each other's company. I asked them not to purchase gifts for me because, even thought I was having a baby of the opposite sex than the first, I didn't feel like I needed anything (and I honestly didn't think it was right). After my daughter I decided that I didn't want to have anymore children so I donated everything baby that I had. I just recently found out that I am pregnant again (5 years later) and I'm not sure if I should accept another shower.