Yesterday I wrote like a ranting fb status that was directed at no one in general. It was about people "telling" me that they are staying with me after LO is born and not "asking" my fiance and I first. My future MIL has done this but thats not who set me off yesterday! Anyways so my fiances aunt posted under my status saying that i was a selfish little b!tch and that the granparents should become before my fiance... When I read this I was shocked! She so went on to say that y fiance would never hurt his mother in this way and that she was welcomed at our house whenever she pleased.... I was like wtf? Who pays the bills this is not her house! My fiance and I came to the conclusion that we will not be having guest over when we bring LO home because this is our first child and would like to have some bonding time with him. So she the. Proceeds to say I better hope that I don't have a csection because I am going to be begging people for help. I was like my mom and father would never leave me wanting help, if we needed them we know to pick up the phone and call. She then told me to "*** off and Thanks for ruining my sister birthday" and again I am sitting there dumbfounded like wth is her problem and oh sh!t I forgot it was her birthday! So now my fiance is not talking to his family because they have been attacking/judging me from day one and he is tired of it. So of course the blame is on me and I am "manipulating and changing him"? Ugh. Sorry I just needed to get this off my chest and begining to worry because DS comes in 24 days and holidays are coming up! Any advice or suggestions on what I should do as far as dealing with his family? Am I the only one going threw this?