Some friends, family members, and the BF's family have been randomly telling me how they are going to come over my house after I have the baby and take him and how they want to "have him for a week" and "get him off my hands" or so...basically saying things that would upset any new parent as I see it.
My cousin recently had a baby and her mother and sister take her daughter numerous times a day. So much to the point that my cousin has said that she really doesn't feel like a mom because she hardly does anything for or with her.
I do not want that to happen to me. And it's to the point where I try to to be polite with a simple "thanks but no thanks" or "I'll be fine" but it seems like nobody is getting the point. I really don't want to be blatantly rude but it seems like it's going to go that way. What should I do?