I didn't get one with DD and vowed that I totally would the next time. However, I'm still iffy. They kinda freak me out and I want to be able to move myself into a different position during delivery if I want to.
I handled labor well last time, it was just delivery that sucked donkeyarse, so I wondered about other options like morphine, nubane, and some kind of injection into the lady bits(doesn't sound thrilling to me), etc. I asked my doc too, but just wondered if any of you STMs or FTMs that have already had you babes have any input here. Experience? Did it help take the edge off? Just curious.