My fiancee and I have a 4 month old baby who was born at 32 weeks premature. The baby came home a few weeks ago and since then there are very few instances where I leave the house. My fiancee however comes and goes. One thing that really annoys me is he has this ritual where he goes to work out then picks his mom up from work twice a week so he's gone for about 3 hours in the late afternoon/evening. I feel that now that he has a baby he needs to alter his work out schedule and stop picking his mom up. I am with the baby all day and for him to be gone to pick up his mom who is perfectly capable of driving herself or catching public transportation really bothers me. Am I wrong for thinking he should stop picking up his mom? As a mother, I would think she should be telling him to focus on his family.