I feel like I can post this here because my DH doesn't read this, and I have to share.
We have 2 DD's right now, and I'm PG with #3, which is also the last, because i'm getting my tubes tied. Well, DH doesn't want to find out the gender, because I think he's afraid that if its another girl, he doesn't want to be disappointed for 4 months.
Well, I asked my OB at my last appointment and its a boy. I'm so over the moon. I felt like I had to know to wrap my head around the fact that if it was another girl, I was not going to ever have a boy, because I still wanted to get my tubes tied, because I would be older if I were to have number 4, let alone the expense of another.
But YEA!!!!!!!! I have to act surprised on birthday, because he will never know that I know, but we have always referred to the baby as a girl, so I just have to keep doing that, and every once in a while I'll mention a girls name to consider (we already have a boys name).
Thanks for listening.