I'm new to all this. My first baby is due in January and the father and I are not together. We are trying to have a good relationship for the sake of our son. He's a good man and he will be a part of our son's life. I'm just wondering what your visitation arrangements are like. I don't know what to expect with a newborn. I know there won't be any overnights for a couple of years. Even thinking about overnights breaks my heart. BD lives an hour away and works late most days, so I don't think he will be around at all during the week. What about weekends? How much time would he get? How old would DS be before BD could take him for the day? Are these things the court will decide or do I have any say?